New Year Of 2010~!

The Story Of 2009~

Im just a simple person,entering the year of 2009 with the new hope.All I want to do in this year is only about sports,sports,and sports.I want to take the chance to be 1 of the school representatives in Volleyball(surely,because Im the captain),hockey(The only keeper for under 15),Badminton(I have worked so much for this!)"Olahraga"-Track and Field(Javelin Throw),Marching Competition(Of course,Im Lans coperal),National Science Quiz(I was chosen for my abundance of general knowledge in my head),Solar Car Competition(finding new exprience),and Azan Competition.


While Im too busy with my cocuriculur activities,suddenly I heard an announcement about something at the morning assembly."Who want to take part in english debate,you can give your name to Abdullah Fakhri F5.For the 1st tyme in my life,I was attracted to debate.I kept thinking about it.And finally I decided to participate in it!


Without I notice,debate had give a new breath into my life.It is unpredictable! I thought speaking infront of the public is so easy,but the truth is it is the most difficult thing to do! I still remember the moment which I have to speak about THBT Sushi is better than Pizza.I was so weak in english at that time(not meaning that Im good enough now).I just babbling without anyone can understand me!So sad!But as time is flowing,it was followed by my reputation.From debate,to public speaking,and debate again.Keep improving is my principes.


After IIUM Interschool Debating Chamionship,I noticed that,it brings a lot of improvement to my self,towards my confidence and fluency in speaking.Maybe it was a little,but it means a lot to me.It is different,for someone  who can speak in english since they born,with someone who didnt know anything in speaking.I admiit that,I was weak in english.But debate had repaired that.Thanx to my family~


After that,it was about  in March when suddenly my teacher said to me,"Arifuddin,I was so worried with you,why you always not in class?"Suddenly something popped out into my head,Eh,now i noticed that,there will be around 7 months before my PMR.I tried to reduce my activities.But,I cant!I was so addicted to not being in class.I will offer myself for any activities in school.what a greedy! yeah! I admit that!...


But when I got my 1st term exam result,I got 60 marks only for my maths!OMG! It was a shock! I had never got this low mark for my exam!..After that I talk to myself.This is not what I want.I tried to double my effort.For the 1st tyme in the 1st week in April.I got my full week in a class without absent.It was a little bit boring because I seriusly don't understand what my teacher are teaching.It was a hard time.To recap all my past topic.I tried to motivate myself.And from the knowledge I got from debate,I tried to get my spirit up.


After stay all over night for almost 5 months,it is worked!Finally I got the result! I know I can do it.I believe in myself.My life will keep continuing in 2010,InsyaAllah,if god wills it.with a new hope.And Of course it will be a hard year for my family.Hope all of you will success to get through it next year!May Allah Bless You!




My Activities in 2009......

                                               Volleyball Competition in SM Teknik Kajang

                                                 Marching training for the competition

                                            IIUM Interschool Debating Championship

                                                                  Pidato 1 Malaysia

                                                   Solar Car Competition in SMAP Kajang

                                               My Lovely Batchmate! Love U All!





1. EVERY ONE  KNOWS  ABOUT  ALEXANDER  GRAHAM   BELL  WHO  INVENTED  PHONES, BUT  HE  NEVER  MADE  A  CALL  TO  HIS  FAMILY.  BECAUSE HIS WIFE  AND DAUGHTER  WERE  DEAF.  THAT'S  LIFE  -     " LIVE  FOR  OTHERS " . 


2.  THE   WORST  IN  LIFE  IS  "ATTACHMENT " IT   HURTS  WHEN  YOU  LOSE  IT.   THE   BEST  THING  IN  LIFE  IS " LONELINESS "  BECAUSE  IT  TEACHES  YOU EVERYTHING  AND  WHEN  YOU  LOSE  IT  YOU  GET EVERYTHING. 


3.  LIFE  IS  NOT  ABOUT  THE  PEOPLE  WHO  ACT  TRUE TO
YOUR  FACE ........ ITS  ABOUT  THE  PEOPLE  WHO  REMAIN  TRUE  BEHIND  YOUR  BACK . 


4.  EGG  BROKEN  FROM  OUTSIDE  FORCE....... .A  LIFE ENDS. --------- IF  AN  EGG  BREAKS  FROM  WITHIN...... .LIFE  BEGINS ..  ------------ ---- GREAT THINGS  ALWAYS  BEGAN  FROM   WITHIN . 





Goodbye 2009,
                        Welcome 2010~

Determination=keys to success~

2 days before the results :

My Mum : "Arif,I had dreamed about your result last night! I heard Ustaz Zulkifli told me that you got 9A!
(why must Ust Zul?..hehe)

1 of my friends : I got a dream! I dreamed that all the student of 3 Abu Bakar got 9A!

1 days before the results :
  
       I can see the nervousness of all my friends.Even in YM or FB,they are keep to tell the same thing!Result...is coming~I knew that! But why must all the candidates to feel so feared?Is it they are scared for what they had done before? We should believe on myself.I heard there are few who don't want to come to the result's announcement! What in the world that make they think that these can change their result? My principe is we had done our best,so,let us 'tawakkal alallah' for what we had done. But I dont know why my mum will shout at me every hour,'Arif,there are only 36 hours more! ' I just listen to my mum's nag.Actually,I dont feel anything! Im in unconcious mind.Because I keep telling myself,nothing will change now.


    So,at the night before the results,I got to sleep early.around 10.00 p.m.All of my family members just smile and laugh at me! "Dont worry,you will get 9A,confirmly!",said them.I just ignored them and locked my handphones clock,at 4.a.m.As I woke up,I just go the bath room and get some wudhuk.After make some tahajjud,I switched on my PC,just wanna see who else is not sleeping.As I sign in through my YM,I saw Muhd Luqman was online.When I asked him,he said that he was same like me!Around 5 o'clock,I went to the kitchen and reheated the last night food to make some sahur.After sahur,to avoid from sleeping,I just opened my garena and play some DOTA,just to relaxing myself~.After subuh,because of too sleepy,I took a nap.Around 8.00 a.m.I woke up and went to my garage.My mum was shocked as he saw me washing the car!haha~After that,I prepared for the school uniform(im so envy when looking at my friends just wearing the casual attire!)Before we set off,I make some solat dhuha first as my last effort or ikhtiar.I just keep 'berzikir" along our journey.Around 9.45 a.m. I entered the school gate.Im just laughing thoroughly when i saw the signboard "PMR-11 a.m. All the students MUST wear school uniform!".My first friend insight was my bestfriend,Irfan.After all of the male candidates making some laughter at the side of school mosque,we moved together to the hall,which have been crowded by the parents,which looked more excited than their son!lol.


    We just wait at the backside of our class counter.Just waiting for the result and slip to be bring inside.As I saw Cg Ezana bringing the slip inside the hall,in a second,we had crowded the counter,the hands of Cg ezana were holding the slip for all the straight A's.I can see the thickness,It looks like the majority of my class got straight a's.Cg Ezana opened up the slip and I can start see my friends name.What a proud!When suddenly,she called me,"Arifuddin,congratulations!".Without any looking at my slip,I ran to the back side and I hugged my mum!I said thank you mum!You are the best mother ever!She cried with joyness~And I can see all my sisters so impressed!haha.My first thing that came into my mind was that what about my friends?especially Raihan? :p While searching,I saw Jijul,he got 9 too!I was surprised!we hug among us,not gay ok!haha.I told him to find Raihan!Suddenly I saw her,at the 3 Umar's table.and guess what?she got 9 too!I was too happy!All the debaters got 9A's! I must told Kak Wani.After that,We had some photography sessions with the other 9A's candidates.My mouth almost cramp because of smiling too much infront of the camera!haha.


   My mum want to bring us for the lunch,but thinking about im fasting today,we just go to my granny's house,in Bangsar,KL.All my relatives said congrats to me.When we were about to leave,suddenly I remembered my slip!Where is it??Oh my GOD! My slip was lost! My flowering day was become a gloomy day,tired being nagged by my mum.Im so careless.When we were home,My mum try to call the school.The teacher said,I can get the second copy from there.I felt a little bit happy.Im not asking my mum for any present,because I think that I gotta more than that! My new PC! 


   Tonight,after eat for berbuka,I prepared myself to go to the seaside restaurant.My dad come back from his work with a big smile.He said that his mood today is very good!Untill his worker made a some kind of mistake he can just smile like that!haha.


   Now,going back to the title.Im agree 100% with this word =DETERMINATION.It is the keys to all the success in this world.Seriusly,Im taking my result because Im not feelin that Im hoping some miracle to let me get 9A.NO!Because Im taking the result with my confidence.Im sure that I can got straight A's! Because I had give all my determination to this war,and I HAD WON THIS WAR!

 Utusan Malaysia-25/12/2009

    Infront of the Hall

     My lovely mother! Thanks Mother! You are the best mom Ever!




ALHAMDULILLAH!ALLAHUAKBAR!SUBHANALLAH!

Debating is not a waste of time.............!!!

Motion:THBT debating is waste of time(Oppo)


Stand:As it bring more benefits than harm.


Concept:
1)Debating is not waste of time,because it brings a lot of benfit to the student,secondary school student.It is not just about debate.It involves discussion,'musyawarah',sharing ideas,sharing opinion,making conclusion on recent issues,gaining a new knowledge,sharpen our IQ,learn to think logically.


2)It also brings the benefit not only to the IQ,but also may contribute to the EQ of the student.CONFIDENCE is really a big WORD.It has to be nurture in the student's lfe.It supposed to be a really tough training for the student to get their own confidence.They have to be tested.being tortured,to strengthen their emotional,confidence,towards a convincing student in their appearance in front of the public.But through debate,they will have some kind of special training,to be pushed to talk,to get their own confidence.But they are doing it in a different way.They will still have some kind of laughter during the tortured time.Because the student has his own friend,whom understand his situation on that time.That is their own TEAMMATES.


Points:
1)Increase the thinking ability.
The students a.k.a the school debater,will have their own meeting at least once a week.During the meeting,usually they will have their own debate practice such as,mock debate,public speaking,at  least,disscussion on the recent issues.So,debating is actually can be known as non-formal class for the student.Eventhough they are not having the formal PNP,but they will still have a discussion which can also increase their thinking skills,their ability to think logically.Thinking logically is actually not a useless thing.It can be used in the student's daily life to make them to be a useful person in this future,besides,when they can think logically,they will start to realise the meaning of their life,their responsibility towards themself,family,and the country itself.So,it will make the increase the patriotism's spirit of the students.So,the conclusion,Is it true that debating is just a waste of time?


2)Self Esteem
Through debating,the student will learn about the self esteem.Because debate is actually not a place for arduing only,it also have the power to nurture the student's confident.They will have a high self esteem because when they have a high confidence towards themself,about their own ability to stand infront of the audience,or the public,they will start to learn about their own self esteem,their image.What is important about it?That will be the 1st question after they had understand it.So,debating is not a useless thing!It can be a great benefit to the person whom understand it.Don't u make a simple assumption,'oh,this student dont have the debate spirit,so, debating is just a waste of time'.How do you make this ridiculous assumption!This thing is about the whole debater.In this world,and like what i said,ONLY FOR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND THIS REAL MEANING OF DEBATE.So,please don't be too narrow-minded.Open your mind,think about the other debaters.Maybe we don't know what is actually happening to the debaters.Maybe they have some problem.They need time to solve on their own problem.But when you say to the problematic debater 'I think you don't have the spirit,you are just wasting your time'.Can you imagine their feeling?We should help them.Not insults them.And then about their determination,if the student is coming for a meeting or debate practice,it already shows their determination in debate.Maybe they have to get through the heavy rain,or burning sunlight,or maybe they will have to get early to ensure that they wont miss the bus or train to go to the debate practice.All of this,will help the debater to build on their own confidence.


3)Leisure time
Nowadays,as we know that debate had been officially been introcuced by the minister of education as 1 of the cocuriculur activities in school.So,when they take part in debate,they are actually benefitting their leisure time.Debate is a very beneficial activity and it can be used as 1 of their hobby instead hanging out with their friends,smoking,and other unbeneficial activities.And the other question,'is it an efficient method to increase the IQ and the EQ of the students compared with other discussion or musyawwarah?'and the answer is YES.Firstly,because it is one of the official cocurriculur activities in school,so,it wont have any problem if they want to make a meeting in addition,if there is involving the boys and girls.Secondly,debating will make the students to feel more comfortable and enjoyable.They wont feel any burden because they had their families to help them.So,the conclusion is debate is not a waste of time.


If you want to be successful, it's just this simple: Know what you're doing. Love what you're doing. And believe in what you're doing.




To my debate family...
I am sorry if i have any mistake...
I am just hoping that everyhing will be back as usual...
May Allah bless you all~

my new project~

              Since my first day of my holiday,I have plan so many of work I want to do.But the problem is that nothing had happened!I didnt realise that the time is running very fast!All the thing I do is just facing this computer 24/7.Getting some info about the latest issue.Just to fulfill my holiday homework towards the debate.But when I think about it back,there's nothing i had done!I just got the few of the info's.My brain become so lag this holiday!


               But last night,before i turned off my eyes,(around 4 a.m).I do some 'Muhasabah diri" for what i had done for myself in this holiday's period.Its so sad when I think back about my activities,which were so wasting the time!i found myself was so careless!let the precious time just flowing like that!Nothing ! no benefit at all! I dont use it wisely!How stupid I am!I had been distracted by Facebook,myspace,and so on.There's no benefit at all!my hafazan didnt get into the targetted level!I supposed to finish my 1st juz at least on this holiday.But,I cant!


            After I count the amount of day total left,it will be around 2 weeks more for the school to open.And I will start to struggling with the new syllabus!which will be tougher.Physics,Chemistry,Biology,all of this will be my company all the time!I have a high hopes to make what all the other people says about the SPM's subject."Nak lulus pun susah!".I was so shocked! This is not what I want to be! Maybe the subjects are harder,but it is not impossible right for me to get straight A's like what Nik Nur Madihah's did!ok,maybe that is too far example.I will take the example of Raihan's brother.She said that her brother got straight A's for his trial!What an amazing! I was really impressed! I want to prove that I can do it too!


            Its not only about my academics,I have to focus on my sports.Badminton,Volleyball,'Olahraga',Hockey,are waiting for me!Its not that I want to be the glamorous person,by involving myself in these sports,But the truth is that I just want to take the chance,which will come maybe once in our life,Im not saying that i got involved all of that by being biased!Im getting all of that by myself!I tried to take those chance!Which were jump in front of me,but I have to chase them by my own.Keep practising,High determination,Discipline,dont give up.


         Actually,all of this thought didnt come by themself!I have to think about all of these.But,one of the biggest hand helping me to think all of this is my favourite activity,which needs me to think rationally,being confidence.It is DEBATE! I dont know how to thank my debate family whom helps me a lot to increase my ability in speaking,thinking rationally,being confidence speaking in front of the publics.All sorts of thing make me be my new personality now.Which I think Is better than my old ones.Im happier now.I can get the real meaning of my life now.Although Abg Fakry said that Im still dont know what Im doing now.


         From my last post,I had stated about my conflicts,problem which was being faced by me now.And I think that the problem become worse.Abg Fakry said "'u guys dont know what U guys doing now".And Kak Wani said "  we concluded.., that u guys punye problem is that u guys created ur own problem, without knowing".What is actually all of this??I dont want all my debate family scattered away,especially the Form 3's.Debate is not just a debate.It is more than that!The ukhuwah.To be a great team,a great ukhuwah should be practised!It is not just to win the biggest trophy!the Best Speaker Award!But it is more than that!without the cooperation and the responsibility from all debate teammates,there will no any award or trophy to be won.Eventhough we won,It was meaningless!Because "we dont get the true goal of debate"said Kak Wani.

So my last hope,to all the form 3's,I hope we can continue our journey together,facing all the obstacles together.Facing all the problems together,not running away from it.It wont solve it.

Try not to become a man of success but a man of value.
Albert Einstein

a real story.....

Actually...maybe there are many of us had read this story..but I just want to paste it here and we make the conclusion together...without any bad intentions...just read and understand it...

         Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.
His bed was next to the room's only window.

         The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end.  They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

         And every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. 
The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

         The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color of the rainbow.  Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

        As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

       One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.  Days and weeks
passed.

       One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.  She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window.  The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

       Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the world outside.  Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it for himself.

       He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.  The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

       She said,  "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage  you."






So,what is your conclusion?what is your opinion about this story?


"Remember,a true friend,will always try to make his friend happy always,although they have to lie towards them"

 Read this, and let it really sink in... Then, choose how you start your day tomorrow...

Jerry is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant.

The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.

I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes, it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."

I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gun point by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.

I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."

"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Jerry continued, "...the  paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man.'

I knew I needed to take action." " What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.'"

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything. 
 

Positive thinking the the first step towards a happy life.

Attitude is everything

If everyone  applies  just these, the whole world will live in happiness

For my 'SPECIAL FRIEND'

"Don't be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so." – Belva Davis

Life is simple.  Everything happens for you, not to you.  Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late.  You don't have to like it - it's just easier if you do.  If you have a problem, it can only be because of your unquestioned thinking.  How do you react when you believe that the past should have been different?  You scare yourself stuck, because what you resist persists.  You get to keep your stressful world, a world that doesn't exist except in your imagination; you get to stay in the nightmare.  It hurts to oppose reality, because in opposing reality, you are opposing your very self.

When is the last time you looked inside?  It's funny that we spend a lot of time focused on everything outside of ourselves and not so much time on what is going on internally.  Maybe it's because we forget or we're just too busy.  Successful living happens when you realize your true power lies within.  This quote captures the idea perfectly:

Most people think that the world is outside them.  They live their life backward, running after security and approval, as if by making enough money or getting enough praise they could be happy once and for all. But nothing outside us can give us what we're really looking for.

To be successful in life, you need to ask for what you want. You may not always get it, in fact there will be times when you won’t. Just remember, if you don’t ask the chances of getting what you want are much lower than if you do ask. And, if you are prepared to receive a ‘no’ or a ‘yes’ then you won’t be surprised either way. Then it just becomes a question that is looking for an answer. So why not take a chance and just ask yourself?

  

PubLIc SpeaKer~~

The talented  MAHISS public speaker~~

To all the newbies public speaker,,I have some tips for all of you.To be a public speaker,is not something easy.We need to have the skills.Confidence is not a cliche'.It contains a very large meanings.So,in other words...Try to get use with this tips for you to be an unbeatable public speaker!



Know the room.
Be familiar with the place in which you will speak.
Arrive early, walk around the speaking area and practice using the microphone and any visual aids.


Know the audience.
Greet some of the audience as they arrive.
It's easier to speak to a group of friends than to a group of strangers.


Know your material.
Practice your speech and revise it if necessary.
If you're not familiar with your material or are uncomfortable with it, your nervousness will increase.


Relax.
Ease tension by doing exercises.


Work from your personal brand (exercise)
Visualize yourself giving your speech.
Imagine yourself speaking, your voice loud, clear, and assured.
When you visualize yourself as successful, you will be successful.


Realize that people want you to succeed.
They don't want you to fail.
Audiences want you to be interesting, stimulating, informative, and entertaining.


Don't apologize.
If you mention your nervousness or apologize for any problems you think you have with your speech, you may be calling the audience's attention to something they hadn't noticed. Keep silent.


Concentrate on the message -- not the medium.
Focus your attention away from your own anxieties, and outwardly toward your message and your audience.
Your nervousness will dissipate.


Turn nervousness into positive energy.
Harness your nervous energy and transform it into vitality and enthusiasm.


Gain experience.
Experience builds confidence, which is the key to effective speaking.


All of this is just a part of it,because the main power is inside yours!

MoTivAtioN!!

STRUGGLING TO THE END~~

       " If you want something different, DO something different. Without change, progress is impossible."


 This is a quotes that i feel very meningful to me! In my life,I have always been tested with abundance of obstacles.But, I know,"Allah will not test a muslim unless he able to do it"I am giving myself  some kind of hope that actually,we are living in this world to be a khalifah of Allah.That's why we are kept to be tested,being frustrated,just because to make us to be better or the BEST person in this world.Nothing will be changed in this world unless we change it by ourselves.Giving hope,high expectation, is a something crap if we don't know how to use it.It is actually comes from a word-CONFIDENCE- ,-HIGH SELF-ESTEEM-.


  So,I took this chance to do some self-examination,post-mortem,to myself.I asked myself "Am I ready to be khalifah of Allah?To carry  this huge rensponsibility?" And i keep thinking,how is it actually the meaning of it?Is it just carry on with my ordinary life,just do some Ibadah ,find my own money,married,and DIE?
  
  NO! I don't want that! Khalifah is really a big means! It frames and symbolizes my leadership to this world! that's not mean that i have to be someone like BARRACK OBAMA,but i have to be someone,someone that is really make the UMMAH needs me! I want to be so different to the world.I want to be a person which been remembered by the world,not like MICHAEL JACKSON,not NORDIN MAT TOP too!


  Maybe this is just a DREAM~For those who are still not realize the true meaning of our life.It is my goals! "Trying" is  a very strong,unbeatable,and unexpectable word.We must keep trying.People does'nt look to the success,but they will look to the EFFORT,SPIRIT, n how many we fall to gain our success!


   If we want to be the best person in this world(INSYAALLAH),we have to stick to this 8 KEYS to success:

1. Passion — You have to be driven by a passion for your subject, which in turn leads to your goals. The realization of goals, whatever they may be, forms your success.
2. Ability to accept a risk — Successful people are risk takers. People who are afraid to “step out on the ledge.” It is not risk for risk’s sake, but a measured response, to move closer to a goal.
3. High Self-esteem — Not an egotist, but an honest assessment of your skills and abilities; knowing how to play to your strengths and overcome your weaknesses.
4. Persistence — Thomas Edison went through hundreds of failures until he came up with a working light bulb. Had he given up after the first few or even the first hundred failures, someone else’s name would be associated with the invention of the light bulb.
5. Being nice to work with — Success is rarely a solo venture. You need the help of others, and their willingness to help will be commensurate with your ability to get along with others.
6. Who you know — Networks and relationships are important: teachers, mentors, peers, clients can all play a part in developing your success.
7. Master your craft — You have to work diligently to develop and maintain your skills: musicians practice scales; bricklayers work for speed; teachers improve their lesson planning; and so on.
8. Talent — Talent is perhaps the least important key to success. It also can be a limiting factor for some. There are those who let a perceived lack of talent hold them back. There are those with much talent who think they don’t need to work to achieve. We all have some degree of talent. Building on talent, using the previous seven keys, will lead to success.

     So,in other words,to get ourselves great,don't ever cry of our fallen,learn from our failure,because,if there is no failure,there will no success~~!

    

love QUOTES~~

WANNA A LOVE QUOTES??




Now im going to giv all of the boys outside there a some kinda of quotes for ur lover~~
Just for ur LOVER!

1. “If it is wrong to love you, then my heart just won’t let me be right”.
2. “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
3. “In your absence, my heart grows stronger. In your presence, I fall in love again.”
4. “Love is waiting behind every corner.”
5. “I love it when my heart smiles but when it does, it smiles because of you.”
6. “Life is the flower and love is the honey.”
7. “Think about it. There must be higher love. Down in the heart or hidden in the stars above. Without it, life is a wasted time. Look inside your heart. I’ll look inside mine.”
8. “Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest.”
9. “Loving is not just looking at each other. It is looking in the same direction.”
10.  “At the touch of love, everyone is a poet.”
11.  “Love is a game two people can play. You can both win and you can both lose your heart.”
12.  “To the world you might be one person. But to one person you might be the world.”
13.  “It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.”
14.  “Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination.”
15.  “With love and patience, nothing is impossible.”
16.  “Love is not a weakness. It is strong. Only the sacrament of marriage can contain it.”
17.  “Love is not finding someone to live with. It is finding someone you can’t live without.”
18.  “Love is the irresistible desire to be desired irresistibly.”
19.  “If I had roses for every time I thought of you, I’d be picking roses for a lifetime.”
20.  “In dreams and in love, there are no impossibilities.”
21.  “You are my strength but loving you is my biggest weakness.”
22.  “Other men see angles but I have seen thee and thou art enough.”
23.  “Let’s commit the perfect crime. I’ll steal your heart and you’ll steal mine.”
24.  “If a kiss was a raindrop, I’d send you a shower. If a hug was a second, I’d send you an hour. If a smile was water I’d send you the sea. If you needed love, I’d send you me.”
25.  “There are only two times I want to be with you…Now and forever.”
26.  “I miss you a little, I guess you could say. A little too much, a little too often. A little more each day.”
27.  “Sometimes I wonder if love is worth fighting for. Then I think of you, and I am ready for war.”
28.  “Everyone has their own reason for waking up in the morning. Mine is you.”
29.  “Just the thought of being with you tomorrow is enough to get me through the day.”
30.  “You have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince.”
31.  “A man wants a woman to be his first love. A woman wants a man to be her last.”
32.  “Sitting next to you doing absolutely nothing means absolutely everything to me.”
33.  “I love you not because I need you. I need you because I love you.”
34.  “Our love is like the wind. I can’t see it but I can feel it.”
35.  “She said to him “I am afraid of falling”. He said “I have wings…”
36.  “One person all by themselves is nothing. Two people together are everything.”
37.  “One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life. That word is love.”
38.  “No one is perfect until you fall in love with them.”
39.  “If this is a crush, then I don’t know if I can handle the real thing if it happens.”
40.  “Love is the master key that can open the gates of happiness.”
41.  “Love is like smiling. It never fades and is contagious.”
42.  “Anyone can be passionate. But it takes real lovers to be silly.”
43.  “All that I love loses half its pleasure when you are not there.”
44.  “Your prince will one day come. He may not ride a white horse or live in a big castle but he will love you and only you.”
45.  “Some gifts are big. Others are small. But the ones that come from the heart are the best gifts of all.”
46.  “Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.”
47.  “The best things in life aren’t things.”
48.  “Love is one of the bravest traits you can have.”
49.  “Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.”
50.  “Love is like a pair of socks. You gotta have two and they gotta match.”

JUST FOR FUN OK~~!!